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You Are Not Just A Mother, You Are YOU First!
by Tonya Ramsey

Mothers face many challenges in today’s world. They carry the responsibility of many roles. Through these roles we become different things to different people. Sometimes we get divided over having a career and having a families or find conflict between the different jobs that we try to do. Making the question “Who am I?” even harder to answer.

It grows harder because mothers see this little person that looks up at them with innocent trusting eyes, mommy is everything to that little one. She makes the hurt from boo-boos go away with a kiss, chases the monsters from under the bed away, and rocks them after a bad dream. Every mother takes that responsibility and carries it with her no matter where she goes. It is an awesome responsibility of caring for this wonderful little person and being mom is always on the mind. As much as it is wonderful to revel in mommyhood, we still need to remember that being a mother is just one part of us, the more we allow ourselves to see who we are the better examples we can set for our children to leading a balanced life.

As a mother, I have struggled to find my own identity. I am a mother, a wife, a daughter, a business owner, a sister, a friend…..but who am I? It is easy to define yourself by what you do and what you mean to other people. As we take on these different roles our own identity gets blurred. It is harder to make the distinction. Who am I if I am not Logan’s mom or Ben’s wife?

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Top News Headlines from CNN

Transition sources point to Geithner, Richardson
President-elect Barack Obama's potential Cabinet began to take shape today, as two sources close to the transition team said that New York Federal Reserve President Timothy Geithner is "on track" to be offered the Treasury secretary post. Sources also said that Gov. Bill Richardson is a serious contender for commerce secretary.

Friday Nov 21st, 3:07 PM

Verizon fires workers over Obama records
Verizon Wireless has fired employees connected to a breach of records from a cell phone used by President-elect Barack Obama earlier this year, a Verizon source told CNN on Friday.

Friday Nov 21st, 2:30 PM

U.N.: Gunmen kill woman while trying to rape girl
Armed men entered a Congolese camp for displaced people Friday to kidnap and rape a girl, but when the girl screamed, the gunmen fired shots, killing a 20-year-old woman, a U.N. spokesman said.

Friday Nov 21st, 1:26 PM

Officials: Teen's webcam suicide seen on Web
With his webcam trained on him, a Florida teenager died in his bed of a drug overdose while others watched over the Internet, officials said Friday.

Friday Nov 21st, 3:45 PM

U.S. presses Iran over missing FBI agent
The State Department called on Iran on Friday to pony up any information it has on a former FBI agent who vanished there last year.

Friday Nov 21st, 11:15 AM


Food from NPR

A Vegetarian Thanksgiving
Even if you don't live meatlessly yourself, you might have a vegetarian or vegan at your Thanksgiving table. Offer your meat-free guests something more substantial than a cobbled-together plate of traditional vegetable side dishes.
Tuesday Nov 18th, 9:39 PM

TiVo To Help Couch Potatoes Get Pizza
Domino's Pizza is offering a new service thanks to TiVo. Now you can order a pizza with a click of the remote. If you're fast-forwarding through a Domino's commercial, you'll get a prompt asking if you want to order a pizza. The technology is a boon for companies that worry that people aren't watching their ads anymore. And for consumers, it could be a bit faster than text-messaging for a pizza, which Papa John's offers, or ordering from Pizza Hut's Facebook page.
Tuesday Nov 18th, 5:41 AM

Comfort Foods For A Weary World
In turbulent times like these, don't we all need a little comfort food? As world leaders converge in Washington, D.C., this weekend for the Group of 20 financial summit, we asked cooks about soothing foods from their homelands.
Saturday Nov 15th, 9:10 AM

Thanksgiving How-To: Horror Stories
Have you fried a turkey — when you only meant to roast it? Or seated an uncle next to someone they refuse to speak to? Whether it ended in laughter or tears, share your story here.
Thursday Nov 13th, 10:01 PM

Beefer Madness
In "Eat Local country," food writer T. Susan Chang says, neighbors get together to buy "beefers" — whole steers — from a nearby farm. Her share — some fresh ground beef, steaks, tongue and even a heart — provided for a year of memorable eating.
Tuesday Nov 11th, 9:00 PM

 
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Working Parents from BusinessWeek

Racism: My Teen?s Takeaway from the Obama Campaign
When my husband and our 15-year-old decided to campaign for Barack Obama in the North Carolina mountains near my parents' home, I thought our daughter would come away with some early schooling in the arts of organizing and good 'ole...
Thursday Nov 20th, 7:02 AM

Sling-Wearing Moms Take Aim At Johnson & Johnson
Johnson & Johnson learned the hard way -- don't make new moms mad. The company, which makes extensive use of new media, posted an ad for Motrin on its web site on Saturday aimed at new mothers who carry their...
Tuesday Nov 18th, 3:36 AM

What Makes A Good Family?
I'm sure many of you have read with horror the stories about the children that have been abandoned in Nebraska under the state's safe haven law. In July the state legislature, following the lead of most other states, passed a...
Monday Nov 17th, 4:16 AM

How Not to Drink at Teen Parties
Parenting teens often feels like starting school a few days after the semester has begun. Things come at you fast. One day you're wondering whether your daughter still needs a child sitter and the next it seems you're supposed to...
Thursday Nov 13th, 2:46 PM

The Best Places To Raise Kids
If you haven?t checked out BusinessWeek?s annual ranking of the Best Places to Raise Kids, please take a look and let us know what you think about the finalists. So far, the story and accompanying slide show have attracted more...
Wednesday Nov 12th, 1:56 PM


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